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PostSubject: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sat Sep 27, 2008 5:58 pm

I over the past few years, I have had my ins and outs of relationships, as I think we ALL have. What do you think makes a good one or makes one last?

TRUST
LOVE
LOYALTY
HONESTY
CARE
DEDICATION
PRIORITIES
HONOR
RESPECT
LISTENING
you need to be somewhat attacted to each other...
WILLING TO WORK THINGS OUT
ABILITY TO CHANGE
ABILITY TO TAKE CRITISISM
FREEDOM
ABILITY TO PUT UP WITH THE OTHER ONES #%#@
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sat Sep 27, 2008 7:01 pm

Communication and Trust are the keys to the successful relationship for me and look 7 years later and im still with the same guy... See it does work Very Happy

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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sat Sep 27, 2008 7:03 pm

The ability to change and adapt
...continue loving one annother
...listen
...learn with one annother
...be open
...explore yourself and each other, feelings etc
...trust one annother
...be trust worthy
...look out for one annother
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sat Sep 27, 2008 7:09 pm

Trust for me is a biggie.
I completely trust my beloved and he trusts me.
And he is bluntly honest about things even if it hurts my feelings. That's one of the reasons I trust him.
And communication. If we have a problem with the other we let it out.
I know that when my friend is upset with her husband she doesn't tell him and the argument goes on and on and on.
With me I tell him, we deal, then make up Wink
No guessing games. It leads to too much confusion and headaches.

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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sat Sep 27, 2008 7:14 pm

1. Trust
2. have an open ear to what the other is telling you (no matter how much you disagree with it you should still listen)
3. laughter
4. compassion
5. love (you cannot have a relationship without love )
6. respect for the other person you should never talk bad behind their back.
I also agree with what else has been written here so far.
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sat Sep 27, 2008 7:33 pm

communication is a good one
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sat Sep 27, 2008 9:43 pm

Ruling with an iron fist!
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sat Sep 27, 2008 10:53 pm

Haha, not too sure about that, Madelchai. XD

Respect, trust, and communication seem like the most important things. And you can't very well have a healthy relationship with someone you don't love. Everything else mentioned seem like good things to have as well, but I think those are the most important.
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sat Sep 27, 2008 10:55 pm

Obey the fist!
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sat Sep 27, 2008 10:55 pm

I dont know about control....because then there is no room for improvment.
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sat Sep 27, 2008 10:56 pm

Madelchai wrote:
Obey the fist!

I laughing the only thing that fist will get is a laugh from me. Laughing
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sat Sep 27, 2008 10:57 pm

I's_Succubus wrote:
Madelchai wrote:
Obey the fist!

I laughing the only thing that fist will get is a laugh from me. Laughing

Same here. XD
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sat Sep 27, 2008 11:07 pm

You've all clearly never seen Invader ZIM before. tongue
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sat Sep 27, 2008 11:09 pm

D: Some of us have! Though I don't remember the reference, gonna need to sit down with the series again, I guess. *gets the popcorn* Very Happy

That's another important part of a relationship: Watching Invader Zim together!
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sun Sep 28, 2008 12:44 am

Trust, great 'chemistry' both mentally and physically, and be able to stand one another's likes and dislikes. Yuuuuup.
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sun Sep 28, 2008 3:48 am

Setting down the rules, honesty, respect, communication and being able to tolerate each other on good and bad days.
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sun Sep 28, 2008 4:34 am

1:Respect

2:Love

That is it folks!!!!!!!

As for the jerk who said "obey the fist"........

Cannot even be bothered to comment,hope you have a great life......
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sun Sep 28, 2008 10:19 am

What about forgivness? thats a HUGE part?
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sun Sep 28, 2008 1:44 pm

J's Inncubus wrote:
As for the jerk who said "obey the fist"........

Cannot even be bothered to comment,hope you have a great life......

Don't worry about Madelchai, J's~ he teases! He is not serious! (And it was an Invader Zim reference). Smile
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sun Sep 28, 2008 2:18 pm

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Don't worry about Madelchai, J's~ he teases! He is not serious! (And it was an Invader Zim reference). Smile

I know, right. Some people just don't get me. :\
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sun Sep 28, 2008 6:15 pm

Madelchai wrote:
Akasha'sMistake wrote:
Don't worry about Madelchai, J's~ he teases! He is not serious! (And it was an Invader Zim reference). Smile

I know, right. Some people just don't get me. :\

Lol cool;no offence bud
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sun Sep 28, 2008 6:16 pm

Akasha'sMistake wrote:
J's Inncubus wrote:
As for the jerk who said "obey the fist"........

Cannot even be bothered to comment,hope you have a great life......

Don't worry about Madelchai, J's~ he teases! He is not serious! (And it was an Invader Zim reference). Smile

A what is "Invader Zim"? ???? Laughing Laughing
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sun Sep 28, 2008 6:27 pm

J's Inncubus wrote:
Akasha'sMistake wrote:
J's Inncubus wrote:
As for the jerk who said "obey the fist"........

Cannot even be bothered to comment,hope you have a great life......

Don't worry about Madelchai, J's~ he teases! He is not serious! (And it was an Invader Zim reference). Smile

A what is "Invader Zim"? ???? Laughing Laughing

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Invader_Zim

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AHsroIxnIeQ
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sun Sep 28, 2008 6:39 pm

Cheers Ed.

We don't get that cartoon over here.

Thanks for explaining.
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PostSubject: Re: What do you think it takes to be in a successful relationship?   Sun Sep 28, 2008 7:40 pm

^^ It's a great one. You must watch! Very Happy
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