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PostSubject: Woman cancels wedding after finding fiance was porn star   Tue Jun 16, 2009 11:02 pm

Woman cancels wedding after finding fiance was porn star

A woman has cancelled her church wedding and country house reception after discovering her fiance is a secret porn star.
Haylie Hocking, 27, only found out that strapping 30-year-old fitness fanatic Jason Brake made adult films just weeks before the big day.

A friend organising her hen night searched online for a male stripper and spotted Jason with a woman in a porn movie.
Now Haylie has called her vicar to cancel the wedding.

She said: "There was no way I could marry an adult film star."

The pair met last year when Jason became a customer at the garage where Haylie worked.

He told her he was a personal trainer and the couple began dating.

She told a magazine she found he was a romantic, thoughtful and passionate lover and six months after meeting he moved into her flat in Bristol.

Jason, who regularly bought her flowers and jewellery, often went away at weekends, telling her he was training clients in a gym.

After eight months, he proposed and bought her a diamond engagement ring.

But Jason's secret emerged when Haylie's friend Lisa tried to book a stripper for a hen party.

Lisa stumbled across a movie clip in which the male star looked like Jason.

Haylie checked the website - and realised it was Jason.

After he finally admitted he was earning money from making porn, she called off the wedding.

Haylie said: "I don't know if I will ever be able to trust a man again."

Jason said he started making occasional films as a sideline before meeting Haylie.

He said: "The sex side is purely for the camera, but Haylie did not understand I was only acting.

"I am sorry and did not want to hurt her. I still love Haylie and would have stopped doing porn if she had asked me to."

He added that he would be honest with women in future relationships.



I'm not thinking she was wrong to call the wedding off.If you can't have honesty in your relationships then you have nothing .

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PostSubject: Re: Woman cancels wedding after finding fiance was porn star   Tue Jun 16, 2009 11:11 pm

I agree with you. That's not the kind of detail you leave out when you're with the person you want to marry. He should have talked about this with her a long time ago.

I'm not anti-porn; it's just best to let your partner know something that might hurt her/him instead of covering it up. Then it's up to the partner to stay or go. Sensitive info can test a relationship, but how else will you know how strong the love is?
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PostSubject: Re: Woman cancels wedding after finding fiance was porn star   Tue Jun 16, 2009 11:21 pm

....And you never know what he might have gotten while doing porn.

By biological dad did something similar to my mom. Didn't tell her until after they were married that he'd been diagnosed with Borderline Paranoid Schizophrenia.

Heh... Not quite the same thing, but similar. And now you know a bit of why I'm so strange.
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PostSubject: Re: Woman cancels wedding after finding fiance was porn star   Wed Jun 17, 2009 1:26 am

Trust is important, but I still can't help but feel the woman over-reacted. Its not the worst thing she could've found out about him.

nsane, I think most porn actors and actresses are tested regularly for STDs before they're allowed to film. (I'm not entirely sure, so don't quote me on that.)
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PostSubject: Re: Woman cancels wedding after finding fiance was porn star   Wed Jun 17, 2009 9:54 am

nsanelilmunky wrote:

By biological dad did something similar to my mom. Didn't tell her until after they were married that he'd been diagnosed with Borderline Paranoid Schizophrenia.

Heh... Not quite the same thing, but similar. And now you know a bit of why I'm so strange.

Ah, the gifts from our parents...*wry laugh*

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Trust is important, but I still can't help but feel the woman over-reacted. Its not the worst thing she could've found out about him.

Could be. I don't know if it would bother me. But it might have been the covering-up that bothered her.
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PostSubject: Re: Woman cancels wedding after finding fiance was porn star   Wed Jun 17, 2009 12:34 pm

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I agree with you. That's not the kind of detail you leave out when you're with the person you want to marry. He should have talked about this with her a long time ago.

I'm not anti-porn; it's just best to let your partner know something that might hurt her/him instead of covering it up. Then it's up to the partner to stay or go. Sensitive info can test a relationship, but how else will you know how strong the love is?

I agree 100%.

Laugh if you want, but I know a porn star and her husband not only was involved in porn before he met her, he got her in to it as well.

It's not my thing and I'd never do porn nor would I marry a porn star, but try honesty and it just might work out.

Regardless, when you're talking something as serious as a potential threat on your life (i.e. AIDS, Hep, etc) people have a right to know.

Just my thoughts...
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PostSubject: Re: Woman cancels wedding after finding fiance was porn star   Thu Jun 18, 2009 2:39 am

Dude, why would break up with something like that--he has the moves.

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PostSubject: Re: Woman cancels wedding after finding fiance was porn star   Fri Jun 19, 2009 10:55 am

I have a few things to say about this.

Keeping that a secret, especially since he was still doing and not like it was something he did in the past, is definitely a lie that is acceptable grounds for breaking up.

Also, the phrase "porn star" is thrown around way too much. There aren't that many "stars" in that avenue of entertainment, but there sure are thousands of dopey people who film themselves having sex.
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PostSubject: Re: Woman cancels wedding after finding fiance was porn star   Sat Jun 20, 2009 4:06 pm

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Dude, why would break up with something like that--he has the moves.

Yeah it's like "satisfaction guaranteed" grin
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PostSubject: Re: Woman cancels wedding after finding fiance was porn star   Thu Nov 12, 2009 8:10 pm

LOL!!! How would he think it ok to omit information like that?
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PostSubject: Re: Woman cancels wedding after finding fiance was porn star   Thu Nov 12, 2009 9:50 pm

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LOL!!! How would he think it ok to omit information like that?

true, but perhaps she could have tried to understand a but more about how porn is acting.
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PostSubject: Re: Woman cancels wedding after finding fiance was porn star   Thu Nov 12, 2009 10:18 pm

if male parts enter female parts that is sex. when you are having sex with other people while in a relationship, and your partner doesnt know about it, or isnt ok with it. That is cheating.
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PostSubject: Re: Woman cancels wedding after finding fiance was porn star   Fri Nov 13, 2009 2:52 am

I would have done the same. Call me old fashioned but sex means something to me.
It came up a couple of days ago. Something about a co-worker of his doing (in my opinion) in appropriate things when he has a girlfriend.
I already mentioned it to my bf. You cheat on me in any way, shape or form you're out the door after I beat your @ss Very Happy
I don't deserve a guy who has wondering hands Rolling Eyes You want the free life then don't have a significant other unless they are cool with the lifestyle.
But I don't have to worry about him Smile We have faith in our love for each other.
Now I'm getting sidetracked haha.

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PostSubject: Re: Woman cancels wedding after finding fiance was porn star   Fri Nov 13, 2009 5:26 am

I too have a thing about cheating. If any guy or girl cheats on me once, their a$$ is to the curb.

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PostSubject: Re: Woman cancels wedding after finding fiance was porn star   Mon Nov 16, 2009 5:20 pm

I don't think they were really ment to be together in the first place.

It was wrong of him though not to tell her when they started getting serious, especially before moving into her flat, but I really doubt if that would have made any difference to her. It would be interesting to ask her if he had told her, how she would have felt about it and if by her saying ... "There was no way I could marry an adult film star" also includes those no longer in the business.


Wonder how long it'll be after she does met someone else that she asks...

" Have you ever been or are you, a porn star? "
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PostSubject: Re: Woman cancels wedding after finding fiance was porn star   Mon Nov 16, 2009 7:11 pm

I understand what everyone else is saying here. But at the same time it seems like in everything else he was really good to her. I don't know about the rest of you but I wouldn't break up with him because of it. I would think that it was hot that my lover was in porn. I would even be showing people, "look at what my man can do in the sack... Watch it and be jealous biotch!!"

That said I would just want to have a talk about the whole thing. Not end the wedding because of it.
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